jebbypal

ya know, I reached my limit today. Completely.

I'm all fine with ignoring general bitchiness from friends and stuff when I know they are stressed, under a deadline, hungry, whatever. I have to be because I'm the same way.

However, when they aren't under those stressors, and I am, and I'm just asking for advice that somehow releases a tirade of yelling and then my request for them to STOP YELLING is ignored, I have no problem hanging up on their asses.

For some reason, I'd just rather if this person would ever go for longer than an hour without apologizing after the fact. Which, I know, is wierd, but I like to enjoy my justified anger and annoyance without any amount of guilt that the other person has already apologized and so I should let it go.

Of course, my justified anger would be less so if they didn't already know that I hate being yelled at. Actually, I loathe being around yelling of any sort. I even don't really like yelling myself and tend to subvert that into destructive tendencies and/or long bouts of silent treatment. After six years, this should be readily apparent.