I hadn't heard about that book at all, so thanks for the link. Sounds ridiculous to me. I'm constantly annoyed at how people feel like you "have" to get married and have kids to be happy. It so often feels like they're trying to defend their own way of life by saying it's the only right way. People should do whatever makes them happy. A lot of women love being single and I think that's awesome. There are good and bad parts to both ways of life, and you just have to make the decision that's right for you. But I guess that's too common sense to put in a book.